TYING THE KNOT

Scots primary teacher weds hubby in Zoom ceremony after coronavirus pandemic ruined dream day

A SCOTS primary teacher has not let the coronavirus pandemic get in the way of her big day.

Today, Amy Dickenson wed her hubby Lloyd Dias at their London home on what was meant to be their dream wedding in the highlands.

The couple had been due to tie the knot in Amy's home town Dornoch.

But a Church of Scotland minister conducted an online “promise ceremony” for the pair who were forced to cancel their wedding due to the Covid-19 outbreak.

Very Rev Dr Susan Brown carried out the “betrothal through handfasting” type service via the video conferencing platform, Zoom.

The couple, aged 32 and 36 respectively, dressed up in their finery as they would have done for their wedding which was supposed to be taking place at Dornoch Cathedral in the Highlands on Monday.

However, for the mean time, the conservatory at their south London home in 25C heat and their beloved cat Rothko, had to do.

Scots teacher Amy and Lloyd have been an item for eight years.

They held hands and exchanged rings which they placed on their right hands as more than 100 people from across the UK and around the world watched online.

Amy said: “It was a memorable day and the perfect way to bring everyone we love together into our tiny home to watch us commit ourselves to each other.”

The couple cancelled their wedding at Dornoch Cathedral due to be held on May 25 at the end of March.

They decided just a week before what should have been their big day to hold an online ceremony instead.

Miss Dickenson, who grew up in Dornoch and has known the minister Dr Brown for many years, said: “Susan will marry us outdoors in elopement style as soon as it was safe to do so.

“But we thought this would be a good way to celebrate on the day that we were supposed to get married.

“She suggested a handfasting ceremony, an ancient Highland tradition, but in the end we realised we could not tie hands with only two people present so we just exchanged rings and put them on our right hands.

“The ceremony meant a lot to us and to have everyone there to see it happen.

“We ended up holding hands throughout the service, with Rothko at our feet, and Susan incorporated the original readings from the day and words about handfasting.”

The couple hope to legally marry as soon as possible and will swap their rings onto their left hands.

Lloyd, from London, who works for an electrical distribution company, added: “It was the best way of making good a horrible situation.

“People who weren’t able to get to Dornoch originally were experiencing something that they had not experienced before like our grandmothers who are in their 90s.

“They got the chance to see us together and there is an intimacy when you see someone on a screen that you would not see from the back of a church.”

Dr Brown, a former Moderator of the General Assembly, described the ceremony, the first she has ever been involved in, as “absolutely fantastic”.

She said: “A wedding is such a big day in a couple’s lives – a door opening day onto a different future.

“For Amy and Lloyd, it wasn’t about a lot of people coming but marking their love for each other.

“They really wanted it to happen so it seemed like a good way to do it because handfasting is an ancient Highland tradition.

“So it seemed like an opportune moment to revive something from history and put it to good effect in the 21st century.

“They are a lovely couple and it was fantastic that it meant so much to them and for me, to be able to help was great.”