Brave woman who feared she'd never find love after being paralysed tragically dies after dream wedding

Her husband Kevin has described the happiest two years of their lives before her death

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Alicia Leston-Rama prepares for her dream wedding

A brave young woman who feared she'd never find love after being paralysed has tragically died - just two years after her dream wedding.

Alicia Willow-Clarke, 35, always tried to stay happy despite being left paraplegic after an tragic road accident as a toddler.

She always longed for her big white wedding and to settle down - and finally met her perfect man after years of dating disasters.

Her husband Kevin, 36, told of the happiest two years of their lives before Alicia, who was paralysed from the neck down, tragically died from renal failure.

Kevin said: “I feel so lucky to have met Alicia and spent the short precious time I did with her. She made me smile each and every day.

"I never saw her disability - I just saw a beautiful woman full of kindness and love."

As a toddler she had wandered out of an open door from her family home in Canton, Cardiff, when she was hit by a car and paralysed and her neck was broken.

She suffered a broken neck and has been left needing around the clock care from two nurses.

But as she got older romantic Alicia was determined to find love and decided to start online dating.

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Emotions ran high at the church during the service(Image: Victoria Wright Photography)
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The service in St Mary's church, Cardiff(Image: Victoria Wright Photography)

At the time Alicia said: "I dreamed of finding a partner. I wanted to fall in love and have someone love me, I longed for the big white wedding.

"I hadn't had much luck on dates even though I was always upfront about my disability. It seemed to shock guys when I actually met them."

But Alicia finally met security worker Kevin on a dating website - and after two years of courting the blushing bride tied the knot at a lavish white wedding.

She said: "For the first time I'd met a man who was seeing the real me and not my disability."

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Alicia spent three years in hospital after the accident(Image: Rob Browne/WalesOnline)

Alicia popped the question and had to use her mouth to put the engagement ring on Kevin's finger.

The pair got married at St Mary's Church in Cardiff in front of 80 friends and family. Determined Alicia made her way down the aisle in her motorised wheelchair.

She said: "It was the best moment of my life. I thought I would burst with happiness.

"Our wedding day was perfect. I love life with Kevin. We are so happy. The romantic in me never gave up.

"I know Kevin adores me for who I am and that makes me feel the luckiest woman in the world.

"I'm so proud to call him my husband and I'm looking forward to spending the rest of my life with him."

But Alicia died suddenly at her home surrounded by her family on May 19 after suffering renal failure.

Heartbroken Kevin said: "Alicia told me from the start that she had a disability and was paralysed from the neck down but it didn’t matter at all.

“She had such a wicked personality and we just laughed so much. I guess it was kind of love at first sight.

“I loved Alicia so much and was proud to call her my wife.”

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Alicia and Kevin Clarke on their wedding day(Image: Victoria Wright Photography)
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The happy couple during their reception(Image: Victoria Wright Photography)

Alicia was left in a coma for eight months after the tragic accident and it wasn’t until she was five she was able to return home.

But in spite of her disability she never gave up on love and finding her soulmate.

Kevin said: “She was the kindest person I have ever met andI know she was loved deeply by so many people.

"To me she was the most beautiful woman in the world and I will miss her lovely smile more than words can say.

“Her passion reflected her own life philosophy; she refused to allow her disability to constrain her. She focused on her ability not her disability.

"Everything was possible with Alicia - she learned to knit, paint and draw with her mouth. She was determined to live every moment and do all that she could.

"She never felt sorry for herself or bitter about the hand life had dealt her. She just embraced it."

Kevin said: "She was only 36 years old but she packed so much joy into her life.

“Our wedding day in 2018 was the best day of our lives. Alicia looked beautiful in her wedding dress and she didn't stop smiling all day and neither did I.

"I have wonderful memories of times we share and I will love her forever."